Stop Chasing Motivation and Start Owning It

Stop Chasing Motivation and Start Owning It


by Chandini | 04-Aug-2025

 

Motivation is the hottest product on the market. From flashy books and sold-out seminars to influencers who brand themselves as “motivational speakers,” the industry thrives on one thing: convincing you that you’re broken until they fix you.

But here’s the problem: they can’t.

The Motivation Mirage

These so-called motivators sell a high that doesn’t last. You leave their events charged up, ready to conquer the world. But by next morning? The energy is gone. Why? Because external motivation is borrowed power - it’s not yours to keep.

And the industry knows it. That’s why they keep you coming back for another book, another video, another workshop. It’s not transformation - it’s a subscription model for your hope.

The Lie They Don’t Want You to See

If motivation really worked the way they promise, you wouldn’t need them anymore. But they depend on you staying dependent.

The truth is uncomfortable but undeniable: motivation is not something you receive - it’s something you build. And no amount of fiery speeches can replace the hard, quiet work of understanding yourself.

Emotional Intelligence: The Antidote to Hype

This is where Emotional Intelligence (EI) changes everything. EI doesn’t give you a dopamine rush. It gives you control. It teaches you to:

  • Recognize your emotions without being ruled by them

  • Convert frustration into focus

  • Stay driven when nobody is cheering for you

With EI, you stop renting motivation from others and start owning it. You don’t need a “guru.” You become your own source of power.

Stop Looking Outside. Start Looking In.

The next time someone calls themselves a “motivator,” remember this: no one can hand you what must be built from within.

If you are tired of temporary highs and empty promises, it’s time to invest in something real - developing your Emotional Intelligence.

Because the loudest voice in the room should never be theirs—it should be yours.

About me

I didn’t just learn Emotional Intelligence. I earned it. After 20 years in the corporate world and a life that forced me to rebuild from the ground up, I discovered the one skill that doesn’t just change teams or careers - it changes lives.

Today, as a Master Practitioner, I combine what I’ve lived and what I’ve learned - to help people navigate challenges, improve how they connect with others, and create meaningful results in their lives and work. Emotional Intelligence is not magic - it’s a lifelong skill. That’s why consistent training matters. Because this is not just learning; it’s an investment in profitability, your future, and your wellness.

For companies, that means measurable results: higher profitability, lower attrition, reduced conflict, and emotionally intelligent teams that don’t just perform - they excel.

I don’t just teach Emotional Intelligence. I live it. And I help others do the same.